I’d been dreading the past two weeks for most of the latter part of the year because of how much I would have to do…last week, it was the five final assignments for the semester plus ITC09. This week, it was the myriad of holiday events that I had scheduled. On my calendar, I had: Tuesday night: Work ornament exchange party, Wednesday night: ITC09 wrap party, Thursday: Office gift exchange, Friday night: Office Christmas party. Two of these things were going to require that I buy something and one would require me to cook something. Here’s what I did to pare down:
- I bowed out of the Ornament Exchange Tuesday night; that made THREE work events that week, and while I love my coworkers, I don’t really relish spending two nights out with the same people with whom I spend the bulk of my waking life. Bowing out of that cut out both one event and one gift to buy!
- Rather than making a homemade dish for Thursday, I bought a tub of hummus and some fancy chips on sale at the Teeter. Time spent slaving in the kitchen cut from the calendar.
- I got a gift on clearance for the exchange Thursday while we were killing time before the wrap party on Wednesday night….getting something done during dead time, another calendar clearer!
So, just a few small moves reduced my schedule to something more bearable and helped a ton with my stress level. Finding yourself stressed to the max this holiday season? Take a hard look at your calendar. Write down your commitments and also write down the “costs” of those commitments (cooking something, buying something, driving two hours to get there, etc). After that, first look for events that you may be able to cut out entirely. Three work events in one week? A little excessive. Bow out of one. Then, look for ways that you can streamline the events that you choose to keep. Let the desire to make things from scratch go a little this year. You’ll be thankful and much less frazzled.
Thursday was our Office gift Exchange; check out the spread!
It was great food and a great time; our gift exchange even went smoothly without anyone getting violent;).
Last night was our nice Christmas party…our boss had it at his house and it was catered in. I wish I could have taken pictures because everything was so beautiful. After a great dinner and a few rounds of Rock Band, we were all thoroughly worn out and left around 10:15.
This morning, we met Mom and Dad for breakfast before the dress rehearsal for their musical. Joey is sick, so he’s piled up in the recliner under a blanket:
The strange tumor on his torso is Shelli.